How to Create Calm Faith During Your Adoption Journey

calm-faith-in-adoption-journeyDuring the adoption wait, the cause of most of our stress is frustration and lack of control over the process. I’ve found the solution to frustration is practicing having “calm” faith that the process of adoption has been successful for others before me and will be for me too. In the right timing and God’s guidance, we will be parents. It’s natural for many of us to want to make things happen in our timing. This just leads to more frustration.

When we first started our own adoption, I was used to being in charge. I was the CEO of a manufacturing company, and simply made a call whenever I needed something. It was delivered to my office that afternoon. Oh, how different it was in adoption! I had a lot to learn and had to overcome my need to control. It became my daily frustration.

I found that if I put in an hour a day into my adoption process by learning and reading about adoption, I felt I had done something productive.  I was moving forward. This helped me with the frustration I felt while I waited for us to be chosen by a birth mother.

The relief in this frustration is the knowledge that God will help you with your heart’s desire to become parents in His timing! When we put daily trust in God with all our heart, we can keep on working and moving forward in our adoption process with a calm feeling, and the knowledge that God has a plan just for us. Don’t be discouraged and never give up! Slow down, and enjoy the adoption journey as it comes along. I understand where you are because I’ve been there too. Even if we don’t know the exact timing of our adoption, we can rest calmly in His loving guidance and the knowledge that He sees the desires of our heart.

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding.
-Proverbs 3:5

For nothing is impossible with God.
-Luke 1:37

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